Age of Ascension
Elves do not pretend to ignore the civil war between them and the eldarin, but see their cousins as people who have lost their way from the natural order of life to live a life of luxury and hedonism. It’s a common joke among elves, that an elandrin is nothing more than a human in an elf costume.
Elven society puts much focus on freedom,an elf can choose whichever tribe they wish to belong to instead of belonging to the one they were born into. However you must constantly prove your worth to the tribe you’ve chosen and provide for them in whatever way you can. Laziness is considered a major sin among the elves and to display such characteristics is an open invitation to be abandoned by your tribe and left on your own.